This entry was posted on 8/29/2006 11:05 PM and is filed under uncategorized.
So I had all these grand plans of blogging last night (and had even
promised Michelle that I would), but all of that went by the wayside
because come midnight last night, I wasn't sitting in front of my
computer - I was chanting "An-dre! An-dre!" along with 23,000 other
fans at the US Open.
I've been going to the Open every year since I was a kid. Part of
it is that tennis is the only sport I can play halfway decently.
Truthfully, though, I didn't really become a fan until Andre Agassi
came onto the tennis scene. With the bleached blonde hair, earring, and
jean shorts, Agassi was exactly the kind of poster boy a fourteen
year-old girl in the eighties would plaster all over her room (and yes,
if you go to my old room in my parents' house, the posters are still
there). Putting aside the whole rebel persona and the killer
groundstrokes though, what I really loved about Agassi was how
imperfect he was. Ever since he burst onto the tennis scene,
that's what Agassi's done: he's publicly crashed and burned over and
over again, and yet despite all that, he's managed to rise from the
ashes, a phoenix reborn.
It's this same imperfection that has always drawn me to chicklit
books. A lot of naysayers have dismissed chicklit as nothing more
than a catalog of brand name clothes and designer shoes, but that has
never been the appeal of chicklit books for me. Remember,
chicklit began with Bridget Jones' Diary - a hilarious tale of a
heroine who smoked too much, drank too much, struggled with her weight,
and had a penchant for self-destructive decisions. There was
nothing glamorous or perfect about Bridget; if anything she was an
unmitigated mess for a good portion of the novel. But in the end,
that was what we all loved about her - that she was a celebration of
the flaws in all of us. She gave us all hope that if Bridget
could make it - despite all her problems - all of us could somehow come
out in the end on top too.
I like thinking about Bridget Jones because it reminds me of where all
this began. As some of you know, chicklit has been the subject of
hot debate in the publishing world recently, sparked by a group of
women writers who have labeled themselves as "anti-chicklit."
I've got strong views on this subject (which I'll expound on in my next
post), but I think what's been lost amid all the accusations of
chicklit as being shallow and fluffy and stupid is what made chicklit
such a success in the first place. In many ways, chicklit was
very much an overnight phenomenon, but what made it so wasn't the pink
covers or the designer name-dropping. Sure, it's fun to read
about beautiful clothes and exotic jobs, but the reason why chicklit
became such a smash success was because it spoke to women - it filled a
need in them to be understood and accepted even if their lives didn't
fit some white-picket-fence ideal.
I guess that's why, for me, the flawed characters are always the most
interesting. That's why I love chicklit, and that's why I love
Agassi. There's no other player I would have stayed until almost
one in the morning (on a work night) to watch, knowing I still had
another hour on the train before I'd get home. Watching Agassi
last night was painful at times, especially in the beginning of the
match, when he seemed tired, slow, old. But even though he's lost
a step and his groundstrokes don't sizzle like they used to and he
looks positively geriatric at times, he still came through in the end -
and once again, he made imperfection seem divine.